INFO:

a fetish in which the submissive desires for the Domme to command him how, exactly, she would like him to stroke for Her; The submissive is looking to feel like all of his stroking is completely in the control of his Domme and that he has no say or influence in the matter; Instructions can include many aspects, such as stroking faster, slower, when to stroke/not stroke, how the submissive should touch himself, when (or if) he will get to cum, and more. Usually, the Domme creates excitement by commanding the submissive to do things to delay his release, such as going slower.